The women of Ecuador sexualize themselves a lot. They wear very tight fitting clothes, the mandatory high heels and lots of makeup. They look like dominatrixes in their appearance, yet they walk with their heads lowered and their arms crossed on their chests in submission. At the bank the other day, two security guards were talking about a women standing in line who had super spiky heels on and a mini skirt barely covering her voluptuous forms. The guards were loudly commenting on her butt. Everyone could hear their comments. The woman looked very ill at ease. Men can and do say whatever they want out loud about women and the women take it. I haven’t heard a woman tell a man off as of yet. The women just put up with it or find it to be a compliment to receive this type of attention. It really stings me to find myself in this misogynist and anti-feminist place. Not many confident women in sneakers around here. I clash with my Dr Martens boots!
I think that the men feel emasculated around me because of my tattoos and sometimes they make little hushed comments. Absolutely every time that I spot one of those dickless idiots, I yell an insult which inevitably puts them in their place. People here don’t like to be put on the spot like that, it is one of the worst insults to them. I enjoy humiliating them like that.
Men wear a lot of branded clothing, drive fancy cars, you wonder where the money comes from to pay for all of this. Most of it unfortunately is credit. At some point the bubble is bound to burst. One thing that I find fascinating is that people here spend so much money on their appearance and to show off, instead of improving their living conditions which are horrid: leaky roofs, walls absolutely covered in black mold, no mosquito nets in malaria infested areas, dilapidated looking houses, etc. I personally would rather have a clean and functional home than a new phone or a pair of Diesel jeans. It’s scary just how far reaching and powerful the consumerist pull is.